The Significant Marriage

A step-by-step online course to create a marriage that changes lives and makes a difference in the world

   Why You Need This


1. Gain specific information and tools that will give you a better understanding of your spouse and yourself, learn how to love each other better and remove hurtful habits, protect your sexual relationship, and much more!

2. Step-by-step help in creating a plan that will not only cement a strong foundation and protect your marriage forever, but will also give you a focused direction for your future as you pursue your dreams and your purpose.

3. You will become part of a global community! TSM has partnerships with churches and missions on 5 continents.

Your Instructors

Dave and Mary Gothi
Dave and Mary Gothi

Dave and Mary Gothi, a psychotherapist, the creators of The Significant Marriage, have dedicated themselves to making a difference in the lives of couples since 1996, through teaching and helping them to enhance, protect and, when needed, restore their marriages. Dave and Mary have mentored couples, led marriage seminars and workshops across the US and overseas, including a workshop for couples in crisis through Marriage Dynamics.


1. Give you tools and concepts that will Enhance & Protect your marriage; to make it all it is intended to be

2. Help you discover and/or define your purpose as a couple

3. Help you develop your own plan for creating The Significant Marriage

4. Provide resources for you, so that following the course, you can continue to protect your marriage and pursue God's purpose for it




"We love Dave and Mary Gothi! They are the real deal and their marriage ministry is relevant biblical and practical"

-Drs. Les and Leslie Parrot, Best-selling authors of books such as “Love Talk”
and “Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

"In this course, you spend hours talking with each other and walk away with a specific plan to protect your marriage and pursue God's unique purpose for you. If you want to learn how you can make a difference in the world, we encourage you to experience The Significant Marriage."

- Jud and Lori Wilhite, Central Christian Church

"Dave and Mary have created a truly one of a kind approach to building strong amazing marriages! Great marriages don't happen by accident they take intentionality. We know Dave and Mary well and watch them live out what they teach in this remarkable course. We comment "Significant Marriage" to everyone who wants to create an extraordinary marriage."

- Hans and Donna Finzel, Co-Founder, Impressive Company

"Mary and Dave have taken amazing marriage tools that have stood the test of time, and added their own valuable resources for couples. We know these principles are effective because they have worked in our family. Couples will be inspired to pursue God's purpose for their marriage"

- Josh and Dottie McDowell, renowned author (Josh) of books such as "More Than a Carpenter" and "Evidence that Demands a Verdict"

"If you could read 10 of the best marriage books and apply 90% of the awesomeness of each one to your marriage, that’s what TSM is. This isn’t a wishy-washy marriage course - it’s practical marriage course."

- Hunter Davis, Creative Director,

"Mary and Dave Gothi have uniquely combined the latest research with biblical principles and with practical tools from highly respected leaders in marriage education. Whether you are a newlywed, a couple with children or in the empty nest, you will gain significant insights into your relationship. The Significant Marriage will help you as a couple, develop a significant relationship that will impact those around you for His glory. We believe loving, Christ-centered marriages are one of the best evangelistic tools the church has today."

- Claudia and David Arp, Authors of the "10 Great Dates" series and the "Second Half of Marriage"

"Dave and Mary Gothi have taught marriage Ed with hundreds of couples. Their new and unique program The Significant Marriage draws on the wisdom of their extensive experience. There is nothing else like The Significant Marriage today. It is a special program developed by very special people. The Significant Marriage will transform your relationship and your life. Live life on purpose. Go to The Significant Marriage seminar."

- Keith Edwards, PH.D, Rosemead School of Psychology

"Dave and Mary share their passion for marriages and provide instruction to couples directly from their own complementing strengths and personalities. There is something for everyone at TSM! You leave their seminar with concrete plans to help you live your “significant marriage."

- Juan and Nena, Marriage Mentoring Directors, Purpose Church, Pomona, CA

Course Curriculum

Frequently Asked Questions

When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, show us you did the work in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.
How can you get involved in TSM?
You can host a TSM seminar at your church, become a certified coach to encourage other couples, support financially to provide scholarships and help send TSM around the globe, take a mission trip with us to India or to global seminars.

This course is closed for enrollment.